Ouch Cockroach!!!

Everybody must have heard of the little story that goes like this. If you keep bunch of cockroaches in a jar you don’t need to keep the lid close. For if one tries to escape others will pull it down. Cockroaches cannot let others rise up.

How many such cockroaches do you know?

One, two or may be many. Even I have lot of cockroaches around me be it my personal or professional life. They are everywhere. Let’s discuss some of the common traits of these cockroaches.

They are your near and dear ones. May be your friends, relatives, teachers, in-laws or if you are unlucky your parents (Enemies or people whom you don’t like may not be able to act cockroaches in your life). They themselves don’t do any thing and won’t let you go for newer challenges in life. They will have whole lot of negative experiences (either cocked up or heard from others) to share with you and pull you down. They are normal people with no psychological problem.

The solution to this problem is not to avoid these cockroaches. The solution is to know them and acknowledge their presence in your life. Listen to what they say but a negative to it. For example after you have decided to do something they say don’t do it, go ahead and do it. Also if they ask you to go ahead and do what you have decided to do, pause and think twice before doing it.

All the best! Happy living with loadz of cockroaches around.